I just went popping by my friends's blogs. Just realised that disputes among my friends are getting higher. Disputes between my 2 closest friends have not yet been solved. Hope either 1 of you reads this. If both of you continues this way, not giving in to each other, problem won't erase themselves from your lifes. With so much personal problem arising, how are you both going to succeed in your upcoming events. I am sure if either one of you reads this, you will know what I mean. Past experiences have already proved everything. Being in that club, you can't work if you show a cold shoulder. Between the both of you, someone have to make the first move right? I know both of you have your own point to stand. I am not pointing out who is right or wrong. But for the sake of that club and your past friendship, I hope you both can bury the hatchet and start anew. Learn from this lesson and never to make it happen again. I have once made that mistake. Not only once, but quite a few times. I hope this similar problem don't happen to either of you. Remember, you have to know your roles and play your part. You both will create that impression in the rest. Whether it's a good or bad impression. Hope to hear a good turn out from you both soon (:

Another unhappy matter i read is from a junior that I don't know well. But I can understand how she feels as I have gone through it before. She wants to work during this holidays but they don't let her work as there is an upcoming camp. Come on, she has already stated that she won't have her usual daily allowances given by her parents if she don't work just because of this. Someone already mentioned that this problem arised many times before in the past till now. If this person knows that this problem is arising time after time, why can't he/she do something about it besides asking this girl to not work? I agree money isn't everything in life. It can't buy you true friendship, loving family etc. But money is an essential part in life. It's what you need in order to survive physically, not mentally. Have you all thought about how she would be like back at home? Will her parents understand her fully? How will her parents react? All you all know is how to think about the surface matters. What about the behind-the-scenes? I am not trying to lecture anyone or trying to condemn someone. But I just want to say, you all have asked me to learn from my mistakes but I kept repeating it. Right now, since you all know the mistakes, with so much experiences to learn from, why can't you all do something different about it? Forcing someone isn't the right way to go about doing things. Learn to understand people more.